Between the Straits

This week, we will find ourselves at a poignant crossroads in our Jewish calendar.  On Sunday, we will observe Shiva Asar b'Tammuz, the 17th of Tammuz, which marks the beginning of a period of reflection and mourning known as the Three Weeks, culminating in Tisha B'Av, the 9th of Av. This time is significant because it commemorates the destruction of the First and Second Temples in Jerusalem and the many tragedies that have befallen our people throughout history. It also serves as a tribute to our resilience and strength as a community. 

On Shiva Asar b'Tammuz, we recall the breaching of the walls of Jerusalem, a moment that signaled the beginning of a long and painful exile.  It is one of the minor fast days in our calendars, and we refrain from eating and drinking from sunrise to sunset.   

Sometimes referred to as “bein hamitzrim,” or “between the straits,” as the three weeks progress toward Tisha B’av, the saddest of days on our calendar, the mourning restrictions increase.  From the first of Av until the 9th of Av, many refrain from eating meat, which is often associated with joyous occasions.  The three weeks culminate in the twenty-five-hour fast of Tisha B’av, along with special prayers and the chanting of Eicha, the Book of Lamentations.   

Many ask why, at a time when the modern State of Israel exists, we continue to mourn over the loss of the ancient Temples.  Unfortunately, many of the issues that brought about the destruction of the temples still exist today. Whether it is external antisemitism or internal strife in our Jewish community, continuing to commemorate this mournful period is a powerful reminder of the importance of community healing. It forces us to reflect on what we can be doing to try and heal the community and the world, and it unites us in this important mission.   

Wishing you all a meaningful Shiva Asar b'Tammuz and a reflective Three Weeks. May we all find comfort and strength in our shared experience during this period. 

Shabbat Shalom 

 Rabbi Bradley Tecktiel